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    #1

    To refuse success ?

    Hi,
    i've got a huge problem in life.
    Everytime i achieve sometihng or do something well, win, i found a way to discredit myself in my own view.

    I've had success in my second of university and i still found a way to say that i was lucky and that i shouldn't be here.

    Same thing happened in sports where i got a very good level at long distance running. I give trouble to a friend who was regularly third or fourth at 10 000 meters.
    In boxing too, i started in March, worked a lot and my trainer said that i box like i did it for several years and i still don't believe him or anybody when they say i'm good.
    It's ridiculous but i do conspiracy theories about people tellin me i'm good to fool me.

    On the other hand, everytime i fail at something in life i will think about it all day long and draw conclusions about it.

    I know i've had this problem for a long time and i want to know if some people here had the same problem.
    If yes, what did you do to overcome your thoughts?
    Tags: refuse, success
    #2
    sounds like you need to let real **** be real **** bro,

    dont over think things about life,

    if you did somethin' right, dont question it lol

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      #3
      Your overly pessimistic.

      You need some self confidence. Dont tell me you already have it because apparently you put yourself down whenever you do something well. You need a boost in self confidence, there are classes for that you know?

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        #4
        The gods will punish you for hubris. It sounds like your very modest and always worrying about improving. is that a problem?

        to learn from your mistakes is to like a life with little regrets.

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          #5
          yeh

          i slip into that same mind state from time to time. it's like being overly modest. i bet ****y people get on your nerves too. well, use that to push you further in your preparation for boxing, like take advantage of it. you may be looking past alot of things you are achieving, give yourself some credit every once in a while. try your hardest and you'll be more self satisfied, i guarantee it.

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